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We understand that hiring a private
investigator and discussing the possibility of infidelity by your
loved one is difficult. Due to the sensitive and personal nature of
infidelity, we assure you that utmost discretion, strict
confidentiality and professionalism will be used as we perform
investigative assignments. We are dedicated to conducting complete
and accurate investigations, providing you with investigative
services that will give you peace of mind to move forward with your
life.
Is my husband, wife
or partner cheating on me?
Sadly, if you suspect, the answer
very likely is “yes.” Experts on marital problems admit
that instinct seems to be the very best indicator of an affair.
Studies have confirmed it, showing that 85% of women and 50% of men
who suspected that their partner was cheating were ultimately shown
to be correct. These behaviors do not guarantee infidelity but more
than two or three of these at once are justification to be
suspicious. If you think that your partner is having an affair, you
may notice the following changes:
- Appearance. Grooming habits
will change. Cheaters will be more attentive to their person (i.e.
the way they dress, frequent bathing, physical fitness, grooming of
their hair, switching of colognes, etc...).
- Time. They begin showing up
late and make sudden excuses about why they have to leave. Quick
trips to run errands turn into timely trips that cannot be
explained. Mileage on car is high yet he / she reports only short
distant errands.
- Hanging Out. Always finding
excuses to be away from you (usually "hanging out with the boys
(or) girls". They act irritated if you question their whereabouts
or want details of their time out.
- Sex. Cheaters may have a
change in sex life (i.e. more sex, less sex) as well as unexplained
sexual requests.
- Attitude. They become moody,
bossy or show irritation towards you for no reason. To them, it
helps justify cheating because the relationship is bad.
- The Phone. You hear them
whispering on the phone or they hang up quickly when you enter the
room. You ask who was the phone and they become defensive or act as
if they are making something up. Strange numbers on cell phones or
voice mail that does not make sense. Maybe a lot of hangup calls or
cryptic messages.
- Work. They don’t want
you showing up at their place of business. If an affair is with a
co-worker, the last thing the cheater wants if to have their
partner showing up a work. They may act distant or distracted if
others are around, especially if the other person if
around.
- Secretive. They may put
passwords on their cell phones or computers when they have never
had them before. Logging off the internet or hanging up the phone
as soon as you walk in the door. Not answering incoming calls while
you are present.
While this list gives some of the
warning signs of a cheating spouse or partner make sure to proceed
with caution. Just because your wife, husband, girlfriend or
boyfriend displays a few the signs does NOT mean they are cheating
on you. It could be any number of reasons outside of cheating such
as a problem at work, with family, finances or any number of things
that they are not sharing with you.
How do you handle
a cheating spouse or partner?
DO NOT Confront Them.Your initial
instinct would be to confront them with about your suspicions of
infidelity, but you do not want to tip them off to your mistrust.
If you make your feelings known and there is actually an affair
taking place, the accused will become more careful about their
activities, thus making them harder to catch.
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